· There maybe times in your own life as a healer when you have some major challenges in your life and you really need to prioritise your resources/reserves. Therefore, this may mean, despite someone coming into your life that is vulnerable and in pain, you may still need to pull back and let them find someone else to lean on.
· You may feel conflict because of your role as a daughter, mother, sister, brother, father, partner, husband or friend and feel obliged to offer to help out of duty rather than because you are really in a position to help. In these times it helps to remember that sometimes not providing the resources is actually the most helpful. For example, if someone keeps going over their own finite resources they may be in a position of learning if you refuse to help and by doing without they may adjust their spending habits in the future.
· Be mindful that prosperity comes in many disguises. It comes in the form of information and ideas, contacts with others, energy and healing, prayers, treats, opportunities and money. It may even come as an adversity that teaches you about your pattern of behaviour. For example, you may keep being used until you learn about the limits of your resources and speak your truth.
· Remember the only adult you should make day to day decisions for is yourself that is unless there is an incapacity law that states that a person is unable to adequately make a decision themselves or significant risks are involved. Even those with mental health conditions or dementia are capable of making most decisions for them. Remember when you try to live for others you maybe interfering with their karma and lessons. Clearly, this does not count if the person is a child who does not have the maturity to make informed decisions.
· Likewise, sending healing at a distance can be interfering in karma because the illness or emotions maybe warning signs about patterns that need changing and removing the warning before the issue is resolved by the person changing their patterns will just mean it will resurface and they will still have to endure further illness until the pattern is changed at some point. The warning will keep coming in much the same way that the gauge on the petrol/gas meter will keep on showing empty until something is done to rectify the problem.
· Conversely, remember to be open to receiving instead of just giving out because otherwise you block the flow of the universal plan unfolding. This includes excessive talking and sharing your opinions. Also be mindful of the impact and integrity of what you share. For example, check with your own guidance whether to share any guidance with others and check to discern whether anything you receive resonates with you. No one else should be an authority over you apart from your own guidance.
· Moreover be mindful of your own patterns because it is by changing thy self that the outer will change. It is no use saying everyone takes and takes if you have a habit of giving and giving. Thus, before you set out to sort out them out there focus on changing you and then what you are projecting outwards will change what is your reality.
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