Power

What is power?

There is external power that in my life has tried to block me from what I wanted.  Back then I did not realise that I could go inwards and intend.  Facing this external power block and believing many lies and being controlled left me feeling damaged and emotionally wounded and upset.  True power encourages another to embrace their greatest potential and facilitate the shaping of the creative energy.  Whereas external controlling fear based power is forcing another and holding them back out of a sense of control.  The truth is what heaven has in store for me will come my way if I get into the right space and observe.  The emotions maybe linked to distorted thoughts or they may be telling me the truth that someone is acting in a cruel way to try to hold me back.  I have noticed how the times when they struggled to either understand me or control me they have projected their fears and annoyance on to me and made it be about me.  “She makes it too complicated”,  “she is not meeting our unrealistic expectations”, “She should do as we say”, “It’s her fault if the conditions or learning opportunities didn’t go to plan”, “It is her fault that we didn’t know certain information relevant to our job roles”, these are just some of the messages that have shaped others behaviour towards me.  Anyone would think that they were totally oblivious to their part in the co-creation.   All of this has shown me the distorted use of power.  However, when we intend and direct energy into a certain direction we are infusing it with power, for example, my words and ideas I shared shaped many of my clients views about giving themselves a second or even third chance and knowing they could always start from where they were and make the future different in some way even it was in how they started to look after their own diet or health.  So I see with power you can either inspire and invest in someone and expand them or you can work to overpower them and block them from being all they are when they are allowed to flow.  I choose to be like a river that nourishes others rather than large boulders that block others out of my own fear of what others might say in response to the outcome I am worrying about. 

So much to offer in my life!

I’ve got so much to offer the people in my life:

When I smile at you, you just know how much I care.

When you see my eyes looking at you with a look that says something’s in life are out of your control yet if you will just reach out your hand I can help you to take a step in the other direction. 

When you hear the words I say to you they show you I think there is hope for you yet. 

When you see the commitment and energy investment I give to you, you know that you are faced with someone who has not given up on you. 

When you see that despite many pit falls I still put time and effort into helping you out of a hole you know I am God sent.

You see I did not have a fancy private education.  I had a parent who struggled to keep us all together and a father who has many challenges to deal with on a daily basis.  I had a nana who taught me that prayer will get you through anything and even when you know you are dying you can put your faith in GOD. 

You see I have dyslexia and it makes me seem a bit disorganised.  Yet my heart needs no organisation and if you know me you’ll know that I’ve probably touched your life in a special way.  I am not saying this because I have an over inflated ego.  I say it because a small still voice inside me is growing now ever more louder.  

The Healthy Helper

·       There maybe times in your own life as a healer when you have some major challenges in your life and you really need to prioritise your resources/reserves.  Therefore, this may mean, despite someone coming into your life that is vulnerable and in pain, you may still need to pull back and let them find someone else to lean on. 

·        You may feel conflict because of your role as a daughter, mother, sister, brother, father, partner, husband or friend and feel obliged to offer to help out of duty rather than because you are really in a position to help.  In these times it helps to remember that sometimes not providing the resources is actually the most helpful.  For example, if someone keeps going over their own finite resources they may be in a position of learning if you refuse to help and by doing without they may adjust their spending habits in the future. 

·       Be mindful that prosperity comes in many disguises.  It comes in the form of information and ideas, contacts with others, energy and healing, prayers, treats, opportunities and money.  It may even come as an adversity that teaches you about your pattern of behaviour.  For example, you may keep being used until you learn about the limits of your resources and speak your truth.

·       Remember the only adult you should make day to day decisions for is yourself that is unless there is an incapacity law that states that a person is unable to adequately make a decision themselves or significant risks are involved. Even those with mental health conditions or dementia are capable of making most decisions for them.  Remember when you try to live for others you maybe interfering with their karma and lessons.  Clearly, this does not count if the person is a child who does not have the maturity to make informed decisions. 

·       Likewise, sending healing at a distance can be interfering in karma because the illness or emotions maybe warning signs about patterns that need changing and removing the warning before the issue is resolved by the person changing their patterns will just mean it will resurface and they will still have to endure further illness until the pattern is changed at some point.  The warning will keep coming in much the same way that the gauge on the petrol/gas meter will keep on showing empty until something is done to rectify the problem. 

·       Conversely, remember to be open to receiving instead of just giving out because otherwise you block the flow of the universal plan unfolding.  This includes excessive talking and sharing your opinions.  Also be mindful of the impact and integrity of what you share.  For example, check with your own guidance whether to share any guidance with others and check to discern whether anything you receive resonates with you.  No one else should be an authority over you apart from your own guidance.    

·       Moreover be mindful of your own patterns because it is by changing thy self that the outer will change.  It is no use saying everyone takes and takes if you have a habit of giving and giving.  Thus, before you set out to sort out them out there focus on changing you and then what you are projecting outwards will change what is your reality.