Wounded Soul

Do you identify so closely with wanting to rescue others from the future based on your past? Do you have a parent who is mentally ill or physically ill and you rush to stop any perceive hurt or pain being inflicted upon them by other family members or anyone else?  Are you trying to protect others from the pains you have suffered?  Do you sometimes feel as if others' pain or the pain you perceive that might result in the future to others' as if it was your own pain?

What is happening here is that you are projecting your path on to others.  You actually have a totally different path than them even if bits look similar.  Similarly, you will have decided before this incarnation what karma you want to balance, what you want to learn and  your own personal mission based on the beliefs and issues you want to become aware about and fine tune.  Therefore, if you project your lessons, karma or learnings on to others then you are forgetting that what may appear to be same may actually have a different meaning and learnings attached to it that suits their path and souls mission.  So are you really helping this person to fulfil their own life mission?  No.  You are just abusing your power and overpowering others.  This may sound harsh but this is a conditioned response that helps no one to evolve and a great waste of energy.  I imagine if you are a helper this will come as a shock and may even make you feel bad.  Though this is perhaps part of your learnings and path to learn or you wouldn't be choosing to read this now. 

What is the solution?  Trust that if someone needs your support then they will choose you. They will feel drawn to you or may ask for your intuitive thoughts.  I know you may have like me always bombarded people with as much knowledge and information as possible to help them avoid future pain but remember you do not have the same path as them and so how can you prepare them, for there is no roadmap into the unknown or in other words because you can not know their path how can you direct them? You cannot.  In fact they may not even be totally conscious of their own path.  However, bit by bit their intuition will guide them.  It is better to share just a little information or knowledge than to bombard someone because they
may only need a short answer if they have chosen you or a little information and so let them respond and ask if they need more.  Now I know that your conditioning and fear will be saying tell them everything you can to save them.  But, save them from what?  Growth and evolution.Wouldn't you call that spiritual interference?

This puts a whole new spin on helper and I am still figuring it out myself but my guidance has informed me that sharing this is part of my path even though all is not yet revealed and I may not yet understand or have integrated all that is written so I share this and trust that it will all become clearer at the divine right time. 
Namaste
Joanne x